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Exclusive DFW

Obsidian Events
Obsidian Events

Curated experiences, stylish settings, and a guest list thats anything but ordinary. Welcome to Dallas most exclusive lifestyle parties.

Spots are limited — only verified guests will be invited.

Discover Obsidian Events

Welcome to Obsidian Events — Dallas’ private destination for curated lifestyle parties. We bring together stylish couples, confident women, and select gentlemen (21–40) for nights of connection, music, and intrigue. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or already part of it, our events are designed to be liberating, social, and unforgettable — no pressure, just chemistry.

Exclusive, Verified Guests

Every guest is hand-selected — stylish, confident, and social. Our verification process ensures the right energy and chemistry at every event.

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Elevated Ambience

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Signature Themes

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Exclusive, Verified Guests

Exclusive, Verified Guests

Every guest is hand-selected — stylish, confident, and social. Our verification process ensures the right energy and chemistry at every event.

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Elevated Ambience

Elevated Ambience

From rooftop lounges to private venues, each location is chosen to heighten the atmosphere and deliver a sense of sophistication.

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Signature Themes

Signature Themes

Masquerades, black-and-gold soirées, velvet nights — every gathering is unique, designed to surprise, entice, and keep you coming back for more.

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Exclusive, Verified Guests

Exclusive, Verified Guests

Every guest is hand-selected — stylish, confident, and social. Our verification process ensures the right energy and chemistry at every event.

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Elevated Ambience

Elevated Ambience

From rooftop lounges to private venues, each location is chosen to heighten the atmosphere and deliver a sense of sophistication.

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Signature Themes

Signature Themes

Masquerades, black-and-gold soirées, velvet nights — every gathering is unique, designed to surprise, entice, and keep you coming back for more.

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Local & Discreet

Local & Discreet

Local & Discreet

Proudly rooted in DFW, we keep things intimate and private. Invitations are extended only to approved and verified members.

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Safety & Discretion

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Verified Guests

Every applicant is vetted with photo and ID checks, ensuring a guest list that is stylish, genuine, and trustworthy.

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Verified Guests

Every applicant is vetted with photo and ID checks, ensuring a guest list that is stylish, genuine, and trustworthy.

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Respect & Standards

We uphold clear rules of respect, consent, and style, so every event feels elevated, welcoming, and well-curated.

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Respect & Standards

We uphold clear rules of respect, consent, and style, so every event feels elevated, welcoming, and well-curated.

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Private & Discreet

Venues are exclusive and selective, while our team maintains an environment that is safe, refined, and secure.

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Private & Discreet

Venues are exclusive and selective, while our team maintains an environment that is safe, refined, and secure.

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Frequently asked questions

What age groups are your events designed for?

Our events cater to adults aged 21 through early 40s.

Is it okay if I've never been to this type of event before?

Absolutely! Our events are perfect for newcomers looking to make new connections as well as for experienced individuals in the lifestyle.

Is there a selection process for attendees?

Yes, we maintain a selective guest list to ensure a compatible mix of attendees.

What should I expect at an event?

Expect an engaging atmosphere where you can chat, meet new people, and enjoy yourself in a relaxed, non-judgmental setting.

What is the dress code?

Dress to impress! No sportswear, trainers, hoodies or hats!

How will my ticket purchase be listed on my bank statement?

It will appear as "Obsidian Events."

Where are the events held?

The specific location is disclosed only in the ticket confirmation email to ensure privacy and discretion.

How do I apply to join?

Click “Join the Waitlist”, tell us about yourselves, and submit your photo. We’ll be in touch if you match the look, feel, and energy we curate.

What does the verification process involve?

Once your application is approved, you’ll complete a simple photo verification so we can confirm your identity and help ensure you blend seamlessly into the event atmosphere.

What age groups are your events designed for?

Our events cater to adults aged 21 through early 40s.

Is it okay if I've never been to this type of event before?

Absolutely! Our events are perfect for newcomers looking to make new connections as well as for experienced individuals in the lifestyle.

Is there a selection process for attendees?

Yes, we maintain a selective guest list to ensure a compatible mix of attendees.

What should I expect at an event?

Expect an engaging atmosphere where you can chat, meet new people, and enjoy yourself in a relaxed, non-judgmental setting.

What is the dress code?

Dress to impress! No sportswear, trainers, hoodies or hats!

How will my ticket purchase be listed on my bank statement?

It will appear as "Obsidian Events."

Where are the events held?

The specific location is disclosed only in the ticket confirmation email to ensure privacy and discretion.

How do I apply to join?

Click “Join the Waitlist”, tell us about yourselves, and submit your photo. We’ll be in touch if you match the look, feel, and energy we curate.

What does the verification process involve?

Once your application is approved, you’ll complete a simple photo verification so we can confirm your identity and help ensure you blend seamlessly into the event atmosphere.

What age groups are your events designed for?

Our events cater to adults aged 21 through early 40s.

Is it okay if I've never been to this type of event before?

Absolutely! Our events are perfect for newcomers looking to make new connections as well as for experienced individuals in the lifestyle.

Is there a selection process for attendees?

Yes, we maintain a selective guest list to ensure a compatible mix of attendees.

What should I expect at an event?

Expect an engaging atmosphere where you can chat, meet new people, and enjoy yourself in a relaxed, non-judgmental setting.

What is the dress code?

Dress to impress! No sportswear, trainers, hoodies or hats!

How will my ticket purchase be listed on my bank statement?

It will appear as "Obsidian Events."

Where are the events held?

The specific location is disclosed only in the ticket confirmation email to ensure privacy and discretion.

How do I apply to join?

Click “Join the Waitlist”, tell us about yourselves, and submit your photo. We’ll be in touch if you match the look, feel, and energy we curate.

What does the verification process involve?

Once your application is approved, you’ll complete a simple photo verification so we can confirm your identity and help ensure you blend seamlessly into the event atmosphere.

Safety & Discretion

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Verified Guests

Every applicant is vetted with photo and ID checks, ensuring a guest list that is stylish, genuine, and trustworthy.

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Verified Guests

Every applicant is vetted with photo and ID checks, ensuring a guest list that is stylish, genuine, and trustworthy.

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Respect & Standards

We uphold clear rules of respect, consent, and style, so every event feels elevated, welcoming, and well-curated.

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Respect & Standards

We uphold clear rules of respect, consent, and style, so every event feels elevated, welcoming, and well-curated.

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Private & Discreet

Venues are exclusive and selective, while our team maintains an environment that is safe, refined, and secure.

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Private & Discreet

Venues are exclusive and selective, while our team maintains an environment that is safe, refined, and secure.

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